Anthropologists have
tried to make the study of worldview a more precise art. They have given us
helpful units of comparison. But the study of worldview shared by a diverse and
well-educated population is potentially much more complicated than would be the
study of worldview shared by a homogeneous, traditional culture. And in either
case it is not an easy task, as the "stuff" of worldview is embedded
within the culture and is variously affected by the individual voices that are
recognized as articulating it. Still, I think that some light might be shed on
this complex issue of American worldview through an examination of the
self-help books that are currently so popular. Ultimately, worldview is best
studied through an ethnographic process-eliciting individual responses to a
specific set of research questions. But a careful study of self-help books can
be a first step in this process.
The writers of
popular nonfiction are by definition intentional "authors" with every
desire that their works be widely read and widely sold, even become best
-sellers. This tradition of the popular nonfiction paperback has not always
been a part of the American publishing scene. Just as German literary historian
Rolf Engelsing argued in Der Burger als Leser that in Europe, the
nature of reading as an activity was itself transformed by the greater
availability of books in the nineteenth century (see Davidson, 1989, 15), we
could argue here that the growth of the paperback book industry in the 1960s
changed the nature of book buying and consumption in America. The low price and
easy availability of paperback books in the past four decades means that
readers can now easily buy books that, with little regard for cost, they mayor may not read, may never finish, may sell to a
used-bookseller or recycle at a garage sale, or may keep and treasure while
buying a second or third copy to give to friends. The convenient technology and
booming marketplace have supported the growth of popular literature, both
fiction and nonfiction. It will be interesting to see how the Internet and
desktop publishing will affect our literary behavior over the next few decades.
The last half of the twentieth century may well represent a unique period in
publishing history, one that fostered this boom in nonfiction paperbacks. But
there are other catalysts that have in particular spurred the development of a
popular nonfiction tradition, especially nonfiction usually designated (often on
the back cover) as "self-help" or spiritual enrichment.
Thus the popular
nonfiction tradition that has expanded over the last four decades had its
beginnings in the ancient fables and proverbs. It has flourished for a number
of reasons, but four ingredients that have been particularly influential are
individualism and the concept of the "self," the tradition of adult
self-education, the literary tradition of the didactic essay, and the new
paradigm of social activism. These factors, along with developments in book
production and marketing, the proliferation of training and self-improvement
workshops and classes, and a growing introspection among those responsible for
American commercial and political activities, have encouraged the emergence of
a popular nonfiction tradition.
Overview
Most self-help books,
are of the essay type, and rhetoric is the winning card in a good essay. The
essay form invites the writer to pull out all the stops; it is nonfiction's
poetry, the writer's chance to use language and effective example to intrigue,
stimulate, and ultimately persuade the reader. Little wonder, then, that many
of the most successful selfhelp books adopting the
expanded essay form are often metaphorical even in their titles: James A. Kitchens's Talking to Ducks (1994); Wayne Dyer's Your
Erroneous Zones or The Sky's the Limit (1980) or Real Magic (1992); Sam Keen's
Fire in the Belly (1991); Claudia Bepko and Jo-Ann Krestan's Too Good for Her Own Good (1990); Harriet Goldhor Lerner's Dance of Anger (1985) or The Dance of
Deception (1993); Lillian B. Rubin's Intimate Strangers (1983); Gary Zukav's
Dancing Wu Li Masters (1979) or The Seat of the Soul (1999); Robert H. Hopcke's There Are No Accidents (1997); Wayne Muller's
Legacy of the Heart (1992); even Scott Peck's Road Less Traveled or John Gray's
runaway bestseller Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (1992). The
objective in all such expanded essays is to sell the thesis, to persuade
readers toward a new, enlightened perspective, and perhaps as well to convince
them to try new behaviors that just might lead to a happier life.
But not all writers
of self-help books are eager to take on the role of nonfiction's poets. Some
prefer the more sober form of the academic study subtype, the form closest to
the scholarly genres they may be used to. The style, content, and function of
the academic study subtype, nevertheless, are different from those associated
with model academic studies written by scholars with the aim of addressing some
thorny and unresolved issue in their discipline. It is a fact, however, that
the academic study subtype of the selfhelp book is
usually written by a Ph.D. who has put on his or her popular writer hat or
teamed up with a second writer or editor whose writing style is more suited to
a lay audience. The distinctive feature of the academic study subtype is the
book's emphasis on information over instruction. While it is clear that the
author has presented the material in such a way that the reader will find it
easy to "use" it-that is, the information is more accessible than
would be a more scholarly presentation-still, the author has not assumed a more
direct instructive role. The book is intended to enlighten, and the author
seems motivated by a desire to help people improve their understanding of life
or the cosmos, but it is left up to the reader to determine how that new
enlightenment might be applied in daily life-the opposite extreme of the how-to
book.
One author who uses
the academic study subtype is Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, a productive scholar
with publications in traditional academic journals and university presses.
However, his first really popular publication with a trade book press (Harper
and Row) was Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience (1990). In his preface
to that book, he articulates a position that I believe is held either
consciously or implicitly by most writers who use the academic study form: This
book summarizes, for a general audience, decades of research on the positive
aspects of human experience-joy, creativity, the process of total involvement
with life I call flow. To take this step is somewhat dangerous, because as soon
as one strays from the stylized constraints of academic prose, it is easy to
become careless or overly enthusiastic about such a topic. What follows,
however, is not a popular book that gives insider tips about how to be happy
.... There is no promise of easy short-cuts in these pages. But for readers who
care about such things, there should be enough information to make possible the
transition from theory to practice. (xi)
Csikszentmihalyi goes
on to explain that he has tried to make the book "user friendly,"
having avoided "footnotes, references, and other tools scholars usually
employ in their technical writing" but including easily accessible
endnotes and a substantial bibliography. He examines the topic of his book
through the process of summarizing past research and integrating its lessons
into his own thesis. He is eager to bring enlightenment to his readers, but he
leaves the "transition from theory to practice" up to them.
Other examples of the
academic study subtype include such books as Gail Sheehy's bestselling
Passages: Predictable Crises of Adult Life (1974), Ellen J. Langer's
Mindfulness (1989), Robert L. Van de Castle's Our Dreaming Mind (1994), David
Darling's Soul Search: A Scientist Explores the Afterlife (1995), and Paul
Brockelman's Cosmology and Creation: The Spiritual Significance of Contemporary
Cosmology (1999). Some authors, such as Peter Senge (The Fifth Discipline) and
Daniel G{'t1eman (Emotional Intelligence [1995]), follow their popular
research-based books with a related workbook or guide that makes suggestions on
how to apply the"material presented in their
earlier books (Peter Senge, Art Kleiner, Charlotte Roberts, Richard B. Ross,
and Bryan J. Smith, The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook
[1994], and Daniel Goleman, Working with Emotional Intelligence [1998]).
The academic study
subtype of the self-help book is the one most obviously in the tradition of
self- improvement established early on in American culture through the
Chautauqua movement and other such forums for involved public intellectuals.
Lectures in that context were expected to be informative, not necessarily
instructive. Similarly, some self-help books are offered in something very much
like that traditional academic study form. The author has confidence in the
effectiveness of the academic study form and chooses to write in a form as
close to it as possible. Yet in choosing to address a popular audience, the
writer, in a way, sets aside for the moment full participation in the culture
of his or her discipline and instead moves into another culture group-that of
self-help book writers-and brings along a form that can serve there as well.
Still, books in the self-help tradition are distinctive by more than form
alone.
Along with content,
it is the function of self-help books that sets them apart. They are intended
to be educational, and supposedly, when effective, they will not only enlighten
the reader but also transform or convert the reader into a happier and more
successful person. In terms of the actual consequences of reading self-help
books, there is little research available to document how effective such books
are, little proof that people do in fact change their behavior as a result of
reading self-help books. On the other hand, there is abundant anecdotal
evidence that people have become self-help "literate" by virtue of
having read many such books. They know what is supposed to be good for them, and
they have enhanced their knowledge and understanding of the cosmos,
relationships, and good mental, emotional, and spiritual health. They have
gained some level of enlightenment. Clearly self-help books are successful at
educating readers. But what exactly have they learned? We shall return to this
question of applied self-education in the third part.
Other examples of the
academic study subtype include such books as Gail Sheehy's bestselling
Passages: Predictable Crises of Adult Life (1974), Ellen J. Langer's
Mindfulness (1989), Robert L. Van de Castle's Our Dreaming Mind (1994), David
Darling's Soul Search: A Scientist Explores the Afterlife (1995), and Paul
Brockelman's Cosmology and Creation: The Spiritual Significance of Contemporary
Cosn1Ology (1999). Some authors, such as Peter Senge (The Fifth Disciplme) and Daniel GbleI?an
(Emotional Intelligence [1995]), follow their popular research-based books with
a related workbook or guide that makes suggestions on how to apply the material
presented in their earlier books (Peter Senge, Art Kleiner, Charlotte Roberts,
Richard B. Ross, and Bryan J. Smith, The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook
[1994], and Daniel Goleman, Working with Emotional Intelligence [1998]).
The intimate,
personal tone of the essay apparently, permits the unabashed enthusiasm and
sense of epiphany the writer is often required to keep subdued in more
scholarly writing. Often the sense of personal ardor, even proselytizing, is
apparent throughout a given book-for example, in Anthony Robbins's Awaken the
Giant Within (1991) or Marsha Sinetar's Ordinary
People as Monks and Mystics (1986) or Margaret J. Wheatley's Leadership and the
New Science: Learning about Organization from an Orderly Universe (1992). Such
authors typically include in their books not only a "story" about a
particular incident that, like James Joyce's epiphanies, captures the essence
of their conversion to the idea presented in the book but also a recurring tone
of earnestness and zeal that conveys the authenticity of their emotional
involvement with the topic at hand.
Wayne Dyer's account
of finding and visiting his father's grave. In his book You'll See It When You
Believe It (1989), Dyer relates the story in great detail, though he refers to
the incident again in later books. In telling his story, he also comments on
how the incident fits into his own decision to write the kind of books he is
now best known for. He begins the narrative after relating how he, his mother,
and his two brothers had been abandoned years before by his father.
In 1970 I received a
call from a cousin I had never met, who had heard a rumor that my father had
died in New Orleans. But I was in no position to investigate it. At the time I
was completing my doctoral studies, moving to New York to become an associate
professor at St. John's University, going through a painful divorce, and
"stuck in place" when it came to my writing. In the next few years I
co-authored several texts on counseling and psychotherapy. I knew that I did
not want to continue writing for strictly professional audiences, and yet
nothing else would come to me. I was stuck, personally (divorce), physically
(overweight and out of shape), and spiritually (a pure pragmatist with no
thoughts about metaphysics). (4)
Dyer goes on to tie the finding of his father's grave to his own eventual
success as a writer of self help-books:
In one pure honest
moment I experienced feeling forgiveness for the man who was my father and for
the child I had been who wanted to know and love him. I felt a kind of peace
and cleansing that was entirely new for me. Though I was unaware of it at the
time, that simple act of forgiveness was the beginning of an entirely new level
of experiencing life for me. I was on the threshold of a stage of my life that
was to encompass worlds I could not even imagine in those days. When I went
back to New York, miracles began to appear everywhere. I wrote Your Erroneous
Zone? with ease. An agent arrived in my life through a series of
"strange" circumstances at exactly the right moment .... In the years
that followed, my writing seemed10 by taking me in new directions. I went from
writing about "How to" utilize specific strategies in self-
understanding to "How to" become a more assertive human being. I went
from telling people how to do something to writing about the importance of
being at transcendent levels as a human being. (7-8)
Dyer's own"
conversion" has clearly been significant in bringing him into the
society-or as Marilyn Ferguson calls it, the "conspiracy"-of
self-help book authors. Most of the successful writers in the genre are people
like Wayne Dyer-professional or academic individuals who experience their own
enlightenment as a motivation, a force compelling them to educate others about
the good effects their new understanding can produce if given a chance. And
they are keenly aware that writing in the stuffy, though rigorous and
academically sound, style of the scientist is no way to bring new converts into
the fold. They take on the mantle of the self-help writer with all the earnest
goodwill of a newly enlightened prophet.
Who are these
writers? Some have started to attain a kind of cultural currency similar to
that awarded literary figures or public intellectuals in the last century. When
a book has had a significant impact, the author's name is remembered the next
time a reader visits the bookstore, and if a new book by that same author is on
the shelf (or the Internet list), it too will go into the shopping cart. Many
authors have several books in print. Others become household names with the
publication of only one very influential book. Some of these most successful
authors are Joan Borysenko, John Bradshaw, Nathaniel
Branden, Joyce Brothers, David Burns, Leo Buscaglia,
Jack Canfield, Rachel Carson, Deepak Chopra, Norman Cousins, Stephen Covey,
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Ram Dass, Barbara DeAngelis,
Larry Dossey, Wayne Dyer, Robert Fulghum, Daniel Goleman, John Gray, Gerald G. Jampolsky, Susan Jeffers, Spencer Johnson, Jon Kabat-Zinn,
Sam Keen, Ken Keyes Jr., Jack Kornfield, Peter Kramer, Harold Kushner, Alan Lakein, Harriet Goldhor Lerner,
Phil McGraw, Thomas Moore, Scott Peck, Tom Peters, James Redfield, Anthony
Robbins, Lillian Rubin, Theodore Rubin, Robert Schuller, Martin Seligman, Peter
Senge, Gail Sheehy, Barbara Sher, Bernie Siegel, Marsha Sinetar,
Deborah Tannen, Neale Donald Walsch, Marianne
Williamson, and Gary Zukav.
Every month new
writers offer their bid at selling wisdom to an eager public. I hesitate to
suggest a profile for these writers. They are varied in background and
personality, and yet there are some shared characteristics among them. They
tend to be well educated. Though there are quite a few women among the authors
of self-help books, there are more male than female authors. Most are white- though
the number of African American writers is growing in the USA and also in India
there self help authors who take on often the aura of
a Guru, something also many American authors tend to do in their own way.
In the USA most are
heterosexual and married, though often it is clear that they are in a second or
third marriage; and almost all of them have found ways to promote their ideas
through other media, lecture tours, workshops, and often even entire
institutions established to teach their insights. Many of them are quite
wealthy as a result of their writing.
These writers often
represent a kind of popularizer only grudgingly tolerated within their academic
disciplines. Some, like Wayne Dyer, can claim the privilege of writing for a
popular audience by virtue of having already paid their dues to their
discipline. Some, like Deborah Tannen, continue to write both scholarly and
popular works, satisfying both "communities" of which they are a
part. But in every discipline there is at least one ancestor, one figure of
some stature, who broke away from the confines of scholarly writing and
presented the discipline in a way that was both interesting and useful to
readers outside the field. Earliest in American tradition was probably Benjamin
Frank1in. His autobiography and many essays and aphorisms continue to influence
thinking in the business community (see, for example, Peter Baida's
Poor Richard's Legacy: American Business Values from Benjamin Franklin to
Michael Milken [1990]). I have already mentioned the importance of early
essayists such as Emerson and Thoreau, and certainly Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung,
and William James must be counted among the ancestors. But writers from the
earlier part of the twentieth century are the more likely candidates for the title
of ancestor, or perhaps literary mentor, people such as Abraham Maslow in
psychology, Bertrand Russell in philosophy, C. S. Lewis in religion, John Dewey
in education, Ruth Benedict in anthropology, Douglas McGregor in business, or
Thomas Merton on the ascetic life. The more general category of "personal
growth" as a subject has its outstanding mentors as well: Dale Carnegie,
Norman Vincent Peale, and Maxwell Maltz, author of
one of the earliest popular pocket-size paperbacks, Psycho-Cybernetics (1960).
These writers-both
those who wrote the classics in self- help literature and the writers living
and writing today-drew upon a tradition of scholarship and popular literature
and upon their own experience. Often it has been the experience of seeing the
effects of their educational or therapeutic activities in the lives of real
people that has compelled these authors to write their first self-help books.
Susan Jeffers comments in a later book on why she wrote her first self-help
book, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway. She recounts a story of how she decided
quite spontaneously to offer a course at the New School for Social Research:
Teaching that course was a turning point in my life. My experience was so
positive and felt so right that I decided to leave my job often years to become
a teacher and a writer of self-help books. It is significant that the name of
that first class I taught was Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway! I often wonder
if! had not listened to my intuition that fateful day, if the book of the same
name or any of my other books (including this one) would ever have been
written! (1996,84)
Clearly, for writers
such as Susan Jeffers or Wayne Dyer, the decision to write a book that serves a
different function, that takes them into a different community of writers, and
that allows them to make what they see as a needed contribution is a decision
made almost as a reluctant surprise, even to themselves. It is this quality
that gives their decision the flavor of a conversion experience. And it is this
experience of being converted or born into a new community of practitioners
that comes through in the related practice of meta commentary both in the books
themselves and more strikingly on the front and back covers of these popular
paperbacks.
In the middle of the
twentieth century, there emerged in many disciplines an interest in the
"meta-" dimension of subjects of research-meta-language,
meta-communications, meta-narrative, meta-fiction, even meta-folklore (see Dundes, 1966). "Meta-commentary" would be commentary
about commentary. In the case of self-help books, meta-commentary has been an
essential element in promoting, authenticating, and maintaining the practice of
writing self-help literature. The most visible instance of meta-commentary
occurs on the front and back covers of self-help books, and often inside on the
first few pages of front matter as well. Here we find quotes praising the
current or past books of the jacketed book's author along with an
identification of the author of each quote via the title of one or more of his
or her own selfhelp books. It is assumed that the
potential buyer of the book will recognize some or all of the names and books
of writers offering brief commentary through these quotes. It is an important
means of promoting the book as well as of authenticating the author as a writer
known and appreciated by other successful self-help book authors.
An apt example of
metacommentary is in the introduction to Richard Carlson's Don't Sweat the
Small Stuff ... and It's All Small Stuff., where Carlson writes:
I'd like to share a personal story that touched my heart and reinforced an
important lesson-a story that demonstrates the essential message of this book.
As you will see, the events of this story planted the seed for the title of the
book you are about to read.
About a year ago a
foreign publisher contacted me and requested that I attempt to get an endorsement
from ~t-selling author Dr. Wayne Dyer for a foreign edition of my book You Can
Feel Good Again. I told them that while Dr. Dyer had given me an endorsement
for an earlier book, I had no idea whether he would consider doing so again. I
told them, however, that I would try. Carlson then relates how he tried to
reach author Wayne Dyer but failed to get an answer. He told the publisher to
leave the endorsement off, but it was put on the cover anyway. Upset, he called
his agent and had the books pulled. He continues: In the meantime I decided to
write Dr. Dyer an apology, explaining the situation and all that was being done
to rectify the problem. After a few weeks of wondering about what his response
might be, I received a letter in the mail that said the following:
"Richard. There are two rules for living in harmony. #1) Don't sweat the
small stuff and #2) It's all small stuff. Let the quote stand. Love,
Wayne."
That was it! No
lectures, no threats. No hard feelings and no confrontation. Despite the
obvious unethical use of his very famous name, he responded with grace and
humility. (1997,2-4)
This is not to
suggest that the writers of self-help books do not have egos. It is just that,
the overwhelming message conveyed through most of the books is that writers in
the field of personal growth and self-improvement constitute a supportive
community, one that rejoices in each new addition to the collective insights
that draw them together. Metacommentary in the books themselves often
reinforces this message. For example, Susan Jeffers, in End the Struggle and
Dance with Life, tells the following story:
A while ago, I gave a
talk at an all-day symposium. Three other speakers were on the schedule, all of
whom were household names in the self-help field. As I was getting ready to
walk on the stage to face three-thousand people sitting in the audience, my
adrenaline was flowing big time! My husband, Mark, kissed me on the cheek and
whispered in my ear, "You'll be the best." In the past I had yelled
hearing that, I needed to hear that! But this time, something didn't feel right
about it. I suddenly became aware of the negative consequences of trying to be
"the best." It created tension; it created alienation from the other
speakers; and it took me off my Higher--Self purpose, which was to help others.
As this Aha! hit me, I whispered in Mark's ear, "Thanks for the loving
support, but next time just say, 'You'll be good enough.'" And with that
letting go of my need to be the best, I walked confidently onto the stage,
knowing that my only purpose was to put love into this world, not to compete
with other people who are trying to put their love into the world as well.
(1996,36-37)
Often authors refer
to one another's work in their own books, or, more often, they offer the reader
a quo~ from a given author without in fact identifying the source beyond simply
listing the author's name. Another kind of meta-commentary that highlights the
sense of community among self-help book writers is the growing number of
anthologies or edited interviews that bring together some of the better-known
individuals in the field of personal growth and spirituality. Handbook for the
Soul, edited by Richard Carlson and Benjamin Shield (1995), for example,
includes short essays by Lynn Andrews, Angeles Arrien,
Sydney Banks, Melody Beattie, Jean Shinoda Bolen, Joan Borysenko,
Nathaniel Branden, Jack Canfield, Richard Carlson, Stephen Covey, Wayne Dyer,
Betty Eadie, Matthew Fox, Robert Fulghum, John Gray, Gerald G. Jampolsky, Jon Kabat-Zinn, Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, Harold
Kushner, Linda Leonard, Stephen Levine, Thomas Moore, Ram Dass,
Anne Wilson Schaef, Benjamin Shield, Bernie Siegel,
Brian Weiss, Marianne Williamson, and Marion Woodman. All are writers whose
books (as well as lectures and workshops) have brought them a certain celebrity
status and have given them a ticket of admission into the club of self-help
writers.
A few journalists
have taken on the task of interviewing and writing about some of these popular
authors. William Elliott, in his book Tying Rocks to Clouds: Meetings and
Conversations with Wise and Spiritual People (1995), interviewed many of the
people Carlson and Shield included in their anthology (more than twenty in
all). And Tony Schwartz, in What Really Matters: Searching for Wisdom in
America (1995), interviewed and researched the work of many of the individuals
well known as wisdom writers or wisdom seekers. Though journalistic in tone and
purpose, both books point to an emerging intellectual history of this often
maligned and trivialized domain of popular discourse. And such historiography
is the first necessity for identifying a field of study as having come into its
own. It is the quintessential meta-commentary.
All is not as rosy as
it may seem, however, as there has long been an abiding disparagement of
self-help books, whether subtle or not so subtle, even by popular writers
themselves. Often there seems to be an effort on the part the form-the chain of
illustrative vignettes, too convenient to be fact, too predictable to be decent
fiction. I have trouble imagining writing in the second person, the way advice
books are written: You have this problem, you have that.I
have more trouble yet deciding what it is 1 might know. (1997,15-16)
Kramer then proceeds
to offer his reader a wonderfully creative book (I would classify it as a
parable) in which his fictionalized mentor presents him with a kind of
"dry run" on ...writing a self-help book, a book of advice. His
mentor asks him to "advise" an acquaintance who seeks some help with
answering the question "Should I leave?"-that is, should I end an
intimate relationship? His mentor tells him that the person will come to see
him in two hours. During that time, Kramer imagines who the acquaintance might
be and writes out twenty different possible scenarios. The book is excellent,
and it examines both the nature of advice itself (and by association the
self-help book tradition) and the varying kinds of response to the question
that make sense in light of each hypothetical situation and current
psychological wisdom. Kramer's book playfully but effectively raises a serious
question about whether academics-or anyone else-should take up this practice of
writing self-help books.
In the next part, we
shall look in earnest at some of the critiques that have been aimed, either
directly or indirectly, at the self-help movement.
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